Riding used to feel easy.
It can again.
If nerves have crept in after a fall, a difficult horse, or time away, Settled in the Saddle gives you a calm, practical way to rebuild your confidence at your own pace, so you can enjoy your horse again.
Explore the Course OptionsThis course is right for you if:
✔ You feel tense before you even get on
✔ You compare yourself to the rider you used to be and wonder where she went
✔ You know you are capable, but your body doesn’t always seem to believe that yet
✔ You’re tired of being pushed, shamed, rushed, or told that nerves mean you’re not serious enough
You don’t need judgement.
You need a way forward.
Feel Calmer and More in Control When You Ride
Learn practical tools to settle anxiety, reduce overwhelm, and feel steadier both mentally and physically in the saddle.
Rebuild Confidence Without Pressure
Follow a supportive step-by-step pathway designed specifically for nervous riders, returning riders, and riders rebuilding trust after setbacks.
Feel More Settled and Enjoy Your Horse Again
Move away from anxiety, tension, and self-doubt so you can reconnect with the enjoyment, freedom, and partnership that riding is meant to bring.
What’s Inside Settled in the Saddle?
This is a complete online course built around the SETTLED Rider Framework. New modules are released weekly, and you can work through each one at your own pace.
Inside, we look at what is really happening when confidence becomes fragile. We look at how your body responds before your mind has time to reason. We look at how thoughts, tension, past experiences, and riding situations begin feeding into each other, and how to build a different pattern.
One that is calmer. More realistic. One that helps you take manageable steps rather than expecting yourself to leap straight back to where you used to be.
Because confidence is rarely rebuilt in one dramatic moment. It is built through repeated evidence that you can cope, adjust, recover, and move forward.
Inside the course you receive:
The complete 7 Step SETTLED Rider Framework, taught step by step
Practical, clear lessons you can apply to your own riding life
Reflection prompts and confidence-building exercises
Confidence reset tools for hard moments
Self-paced access for a full year for you to revisit the modules if you want
Downloadable material within each module
Bonus #1: Settled Rider Thought Reset Quick Guide
Bonus #2: Settled Rider 30-Day Planner
Bonus #3: Settled in the Saddle Reflection Page
Founding launch bonuses, included during this launch only
When you join during the founding launch, you also receive five practical support tools to help you use the course in real riding situations:
🎧 Calm Before You Ride Audio Pack
Four short guided audios to help you settle before riding, reset after a wobble, and reflect after a ride. Ready to use on your phone at the yard.
📌 Settled Rider Quick-Start Cards
Simple, printable prompt cards for your tack room, car, or phone, for the moments when your brain has temporarily gone to stand in the corner.
🔄 Settled in the Saddle Riding Confidence Reset Plan
A practical step-by-step guide for recovering after a difficult ride, a confidence knock, or a disappointing day.
📈 Small Wins Confidence Tracker
A simple tracker to collect evidence that your confidence is growing, even when progress feels slow. Progress you can see.
✔️ Is Today a Riding Day? Decision Guide
A calm, structured decision-making tool to help you choose whether to ride, adjust your plan, do groundwork, or take a smaller confidence-building step. No more going round in circles.
These tools are included to support the work, not to overwhelm you. Everything is designed to be useful, simple, and easy to return to.
Because horses, life, weather, hormones, busy yards, fresh horses, and human brains do not move in a neat straight line. Funny that.
Let’s Build Confidence Together with the Course
Get the full Settled in the Saddle course with all the audios and downloads to help you and your horse progress with confidence
Take the First Step Toward Confident Riding
Why Work With Me?
I’m Margie Riley: lifelong horsewoman, coach, and creator of the SETTLED Rider Framework.
I have produced young horses and thoroughbreds off the track, show jumped to Grand Prix level, and evented to a high standard. But it is what I have had to come back from that shaped this course.
Time away from riding, falls, difficult horses, back surgeries, and cancer treatment. I know what it takes to find your way back, because I have done it myself and coached many riders through it.
Those years taught me that confidence is not simply a mindset issue, and it is not about how well you can ride. It involves your body, your mind, your horse and your history. Even accomplished riders can go through periods when riding no longer feels as easy, instinctive or enjoyable as it once did.
So I won’t push you or tell you to “just get on with it.” I will help you understand what is happening in your mind and body, recognise what you and your horse need, and move forward steadily through small, achievable wins.
Good riding isn’t about proving how brave you are. It’s about having the calm and clarity to make the right decisions for you and your horse.
Your Small Steps Guarantee
I want this course to work for you, and I know it can when you take part.
So here’s my promise: complete your Riding Confidence Roadmap, follow your 30-day plan with its four weekly check-ins, and finish the workbooks for each module as it opens. If you’ve done the work and, within 30 days of joining, you don’t feel any more settled in the saddle, send me your completed workbooks and I’ll refund your course payment in full.
No perfection needed. Just show up, one small step at a time.
One honest note: Settled in the Saddle is designed for real, lasting change, not an overnight switch. Confidence is something you build steadily, one small step at a time, and I'd never promise you a shortcut that doesn't exist. What I can offer is a clear, supportive pathway: a way to understand what's happening in your body, calm your nervous system, and rebuild your connection with your horse at a pace that truly lasts.
Your next step
You do not need to feel completely confident before you take action.
Confidence is usually built because of the right action, not before it.
If you are ready for a calmer, steadier, more supportive way back into riding, I would love to help you get there.
Available Offers
Course +
Settled Support Membership
US$297 + US$29/month
with first month free!
I’m Ready to Feel Calmer in the Saddle✓ Backed by my Small Steps Guarantee: do the work, and if you don’t feel more settled within 30 days, I’ll refund your course payment. Read the guarantee
Not ready to join yet?
Start with my free ebook, a starter guide to calmer, more confident riding. Read it in your own time and see whether my approach feels right for you and your horse.
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