Settled in the Saddle

A Pathway from Anxiety to Calmer,
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What’s Inside Settled in the Saddle?

This is a complete online course built around the SETTLED Rider Framework. New modules are released weekly, and you can work through each one at your own pace.

Inside, we look at what is really happening when confidence becomes fragile. We look at how your body responds before your mind has time to reason. We look at how thoughts, tension, past experiences, and riding situations begin feeding into each other, and how to build a different pattern.

One that is calmer. More realistic. One that helps you take manageable steps rather than expecting yourself to leap straight back to where you used to be.

Because confidence is rarely rebuilt in one dramatic moment. It is built through repeated evidence that you can cope, adjust, recover, and move forward.

Inside the course you receive:

The complete 7 Step SETTLED Rider Framework, taught step by step

Practical, clear lessons you can apply to your own riding life

Reflection prompts and confidence-building exercises

Confidence reset tools for hard moments

Self-paced access for a full year for you to revisit the modules if you want

Downloadable material within each module

Bonus #1:Ā Settled RiderĀ Thought ResetĀ Quick Guide

Bonus #2:Ā Settled Rider 30-Day Planner

Bonus #3:Ā Settled in the Saddle Reflection Page

Founding launch bonuses — included during this launch only

When you join during the founding launch, you also receive five practical support tools to help you use the course in real riding situations:

šŸŽ§ Calm Before You Ride Audio PackĀ 

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four short guided audios to help you settle before riding, reset after a wobble, and reflect after a ride. Ready to use on your phone at the yard.

šŸ“Œ Settled Rider Quick-Start Cards

Simple, printable prompt cards for your tack room, car, or phone — for the moments when your brain has temporarily gone to stand in the corner.

šŸ”„ Settled in the Saddle Riding Confidence Reset Plan

A practical step-by-step guide for recovering after a difficult ride, a confidence knock, or a disappointing day.

šŸ“ˆ Small Wins Confidence Tracker

A simple tracker to collect evidence that your confidence is growing — even when progress feels slow. Progress you can see.

āœ”ļø Is Today a Riding Day? Decision Guide

A calm, structured decision-making tool to help you choose whether to ride, adjust your plan, do groundwork, or take a smaller confidence-building step. No more going round in circles.

These tools are included to support the work, not to overwhelm you. Everything is designed to be useful, simple, and easy to return to.

Ā Because horses, life, weather, hormones, busy yards, fresh horses, and human brains do not move in a neat straight line. Funny that.

 

Let’s Build Confidence Together with the CourseĀ 

Get the full Settled in the Saddle course with all the audios and downloads toĀ help you and your horse progress with confidence

Take the First Step Toward Confident Riding

Feel Calmer and More in Control When You Ride

Learn practical tools to settle anxiety, reduce overwhelm, and feel steadier both mentally and physically in the saddle.

Rebuild

Confidence Without PressureĀ 

Ā Follow a supportive step-by-step pathway designed specifically for nervous riders, returning riders, and riders rebuilding trust after setbacks.

Feel More Settled and Enjoy Your Horse Again

Move away from anxiety, tension, and self-doubt so you can reconnect with the enjoyment, freedom, and partnership that riding is meant to bring.

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This course is right for you if:

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āœ”Ā  You feel tense before you even get on

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āœ”Ā  You compare yourself to the rider you used to be and wonder where she went

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āœ”Ā  You know you are capable,Ā  but your body doesn’t always seem to believe that yet

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āœ”Ā Ā You’re tired of being pushed, shamed, rushed, or told that nerves mean you’re not serious enough

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Ā  You don’t need judgement.

Ā  Ā  You need a way forward.

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Why I created this course — and why it’s different

I am Margie Riley: lifelong horsewoman, experienced coach, and creator of the SETTLED Rider Framework.

Horses have been part of my life for decades. I have produced young horses and thoroughbreds off the track, competed in show jumping to Grand Prix level, and evented to a high standard.

But it is not only the achievements that shaped this course. It is what I have had to come back from.

Like many riders, my journey has had disruptions, in my case it has included study, family, falls, difficult horses, back surgeries, cancer treatment, and times when riding felt anything but straightforward. I know what it is to have to find your way back; not as a concept, but as a lived experience.

Through years of riding, coaching, competing, and working with riders who were struggling, something became very clear to me:

Riding confidence is not just a mindset issue.

It’s not just about positive thinking. It’s not just about technique. It’s not about being told to get on and do it. Confidence in the saddle involves your body, your mind, your horse, your environment, your history, and the choices you make in each moment.

That’s why I created the SETTLED Rider Framework: a practical, whole-rider approach for rebuilding confidence gently and sustainably, without pressure, and without pretending that fear is something to be ashamed of.

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Settled in the Saddle

Take the First Step toward Confident Riding with the Settled in the Saddle Course

Begin Your Settled Rider Journey

Your 14-Day Settled Start Guarantee

I want you to feel completely confident saying yes to Settled in the Saddle.

So here's what I offer: spend your first two weeks inside the course. Watch the welcome lesson, move through Module 1 in full, try the first reflection exercise for yourself, and begin Module 2. This isn't a formality, it's genuinely how you'll know whether this approach feels right for your body and your journey with your horse.

If it's not the right fit

You’ll have two full weeks to explore the course and put the first tools into practice. If, during that time, you feel it isn’t the right fit, simply contact me within 14 days of your purchase and I’ll refund your course payment. No hard feelings.

One honest note: Settled in the Saddle is designed for real, lasting change, not an overnight switch. Confidence is something you build steadily, one small step at a time, and I'd never promise you a shortcut that doesn't exist. What I can offer is a clear, supportive pathway: a way to understand what's happening in your body, calm your nervous system, and rebuild your connection with your horse at a pace that truly lasts.

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Your next step

You do not need to feel completely confident before you take action.

Confidence is usually built because of the right action, not before it.

If you are ready for a calmer, steadier, more supportive way back into riding, I would love to help you get there.Ā Ā 

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Available Offers

Course

US$297

includes 12 months' course access

  • Full Settled in the Saddle 7 Module course
  • Modules delivered weekly to avoid overwhelm and allow you time to implement
  • 8 Bonuses for Founding Members
  • Downloadable resourses with each moduleĀ 
Begin Your Settled Rider Journey

Course +
Settled Support Membership

US$297 + US$29/month

with first month free!

  • Full Settled in the Saddle 7 module program
  • 8 bonuses for Founding Members
  • Settled Support membership with your first month free. Your founding rate of US$29/month remains in place while your membership stays active
I’m Ready to Feel Calmer in the Saddle

Course +
Coaching Bundle

US$550

Save nearly US$50!

  • Full Settled in the Saddle 7 Module Course
  • All eight Founding Member bonuses included
  • Three personalised one-hour coaching calls focused on your individual riding needsĀ 
Start Riding with More Confidence

Settled Support

US$29/month

includes

  • Two one-hour live support calls each month
  • A new riding-confidence topic explored each month
  • One teaching and discussion call
  • One live Q&A call
  • Practical downloadable resources for each month’s topic
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