Settled in the Saddle
A Pathway from Anxiety to Calmer,
More Confident Horse Riding.
What’s inside Settled in the Saddle program?
This is a complete, self-paced online course built around the SETTLED Rider Framework. You can move through it in the order it’s designed — or return to the parts you need most.
Inside, we look at what is really happening when confidence becomes fragile. We look at how your body responds before your mind has time to reason. We look at how thoughts, tension, past experiences, and riding situations begin feeding into each other — and how to build a different pattern.
One that is calmer. More realistic. One that helps you take manageable steps rather than expecting yourself to leap straight back to where you used to be.
Because confidence is rarely rebuilt in one dramatic moment. It is built through repeated evidence that you can cope, adjust, recover, and move forward.
Inside the course you receive:
The complete SETTLED Rider Framework, taught step by step
Practical, clear lessons you can apply to your own riding life
Reflection prompts and confidence-building exercises
Confidence reset tools for hard moments
Self-paced lifetime access — return whenever you need it
Downloadable material within each modules
Bonus #1: Thought Reset Plan
Bonus #2: 30-Day Planner
Bonus #3: Reflection Page
Founding launch bonuses — included during this launch only
When you join during the founding launch, you also receive five practical support tools to help you use the course in real riding situations:
🎧 Calm Before You Ride Audio Pack
Short guided audios to help you settle before riding, reset after a wobble, and reflect after a ride. Ready to use on your phone at the yard.
📌 Settled Rider Quick-Start Cards
Simple, printable prompt cards for your tack room, car, or phone — for the moments when your brain has temporarily gone to stand in the corner.
🔄 Riding Confidence Reset Plan
A practical step-by-step guide for recovering after a difficult ride, a confidence knock, or a disappointing day.
📈 Small Wins Confidence Tracker
A simple tracker to collect evidence that your confidence is growing — even when progress feels slow. Progress you can see.
✔️ Is Today a Riding Day? Decision Guide
A calm, structured decision-making tool to help you choose whether to ride, adjust your plan, do groundwork, or take a smaller confidence-building step. No more going round in circles.
These tools are included to support the work — not to overwhelm you. Everything is designed to be useful, simple, and easy to return to.
Because horses, life, weather, hormones, busy yards, fresh horses, and human brains do not move in a neat straight line. Funny that.
Let’s Build Confidence Together with the Course plus Membership Package
Get the full Settled in the Saddle course plus ongoing support so you’re never riding through this work alone. Coaching, community, and accountability to keep you and your horse progressing with confidence
Yes I want the course plus membership
Feel Calmer and More in Control When You Ride
Learn practical tools to settle anxiety, reduce overwhelm, and feel steadier both mentally and physically in the saddle.
Rebuild Confidence Without Pressure
Follow a supportive step-by-step pathway designed specifically for nervous riders, returning riders, and riders rebuilding trust after setbacks.
Enjoy Your Horse and Riding Again
Move away from, tension, and self-doubt so you can reconnect with the enjoyment, freedom, and partnership that riding is meant to bring.
This course is right for you if:
✔ You feel tense before you even get on
✔ You compare yourself to the rider you used to be and wonder where she went
✔ You know you are capable, but your body doesn’t always seem to believe that yet
✔ You’re tired of being pushed, shamed, rushed, or told that nerves mean you’re not serious enough
You don’t need judgement.
You need a way forward.
Why I created this course — and why it’s different
I am Margie Riley: lifelong horsewoman, experienced coach, and creator of the SETTLED Rider Framework.
Horses have been part of my life for decades. I have produced young horses and thoroughbreds off the track, competed in show jumping to Grand Prix level, and evented to a high standard.
But it is not only the achievements that shaped this course. It is what I have had to come back from.
Like many riders, my journey has had disruptions, in my case it has included falls, difficult horses, back surgeries, cancer treatment, and times when riding felt anything but straightforward. I know what it is to have to find your way back — not as a concept, but as a lived experience.
Through years of riding, coaching, competing, and working with riders who were struggling, something became very clear to me:
Riding confidence is not just a mindset issue.
It’s not just about positive thinking. It’s not just about technique. It’s not about being told to get on and do it. Confidence in the saddle involves your body, your mind, your horse, your environment, your history, and the choices you make in each moment.
That’s why I created the SETTLED Rider Framework — a practical, whole-rider approach for rebuilding confidence gently and sustainably, without pressure, and without pretending that fear is something to be ashamed of.
Settled in the Saddle
Take the First Step toward Confident Riding with the Settled in the Saddle Course
Begin Your Settled Rider JourneyIs this only for riders who have had a fall?
I’m not riding much right now. Can I still join?
How quickly will I feel more confident?
What happens after the course?
What if I enrol and realise the course is not right for me?
Can I complete the course on my phone or tablet?
Is this course a substitute for professional therapy or medical treatment?
What if my confidence problem is connected to my horse’s behaviour?
Can I use the course alongside lessons with my riding instructor?
What is the difference between the course and Settled Support?
Do I need 1:1 coaching to complete the course?
How long will I have access to the course?
How much time will I need each week?
What happens if I fall behind?
How is the course delivered?
Will the course make my fear disappear completely?
What results can I realistically expect?
Is the course suitable for experienced or competitive riders?
Do I need to own a horse?
Your 7-Day Settled Start Guarantee
I want you to feel completely confident saying yes to Settled in the Saddle.
So here's what I offer: spend your first week inside the course. Watch the welcome lesson, move through the start of Module 1, and try the first reflection exercise for yourself. This isn't a formality, it's genuinely how you'll know whether this approach feels right for your body and your journey with your horse.
If it's not the right fit
If, after that, you feel it isn't the right fit, simply reach out within 7 days of your purchase and I'll refund you, no hard feelings, and you're welcome to keep the bonuses you've received as a thank you for giving it a try.
One honest note: Settled in the Saddle isn't a quick fix, and I can't promise your fear will vanish overnight — riding anxiety doesn't work that way, and I'd never want to promise you something that isn't true. What I can offer is a clear, supportive pathway to help you understand what's happening in your body, calm your nervous system, and rebuild your confidence step by step.
Your next step
You do not need to feel completely confident before you take action.
Confidence is usually built because of the right action, not before it.
If you are ready for a calmer, steadier, more supportive way back into riding, I would love to help you get there.
Available Offers
Course +
Settled Support Membership
$297 + $29/mo
First month free!
I’m Ready to Feel Calmer in the SaddlePremium Bundle: includes Settled in the Saddle Course, 3 X 1:1 Calls, and Settled Support Membership
$550.00
INCLUDES
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