Settled in the Saddle

A Pathway from Anxiety to Calmer,
More  Confident Horse Riding.
 

What’s inside Settled in the Saddle program?

This is a complete, self-paced online course built around the SETTLED Rider Framework. You can move through it in the order it’s designed — or return to the parts you need most.

Inside, we look at what is really happening when confidence becomes fragile. We look at how your body responds before your mind has time to reason. We look at how thoughts, tension, past experiences, and riding situations begin feeding into each other — and how to build a different pattern.

One that is calmer. More realistic. One that helps you take manageable steps rather than expecting yourself to leap straight back to where you used to be.

Because confidence is rarely rebuilt in one dramatic moment. It is built through repeated evidence that you can cope, adjust, recover, and move forward.

Inside the course you receive:

The complete SETTLED Rider Framework, taught step by step

Practical, clear lessons you can apply to your own riding life

Reflection prompts and confidence-building exercises

Confidence reset tools for hard moments

Self-paced lifetime access — return whenever you need it

Downloadable material within each modules

Bonus #1: Thought Reset Plan

Bonus #2: 30-Day Planner

Bonus #3: Reflection Page

Founding launch bonuses — included during this launch only

When you join during the founding launch, you also receive five practical support tools to help you use the course in real riding situations:

🎧 Calm Before You Ride Audio Pack

Short guided audios to help you settle before riding, reset after a wobble, and reflect after a ride. Ready to use on your phone at the yard.

📌 Settled Rider Quick-Start Cards

Simple, printable prompt cards for your tack room, car, or phone — for the moments when your brain has temporarily gone to stand in the corner.

🔄 Riding Confidence Reset Plan

A practical step-by-step guide for recovering after a difficult ride, a confidence knock, or a disappointing day.

📈 Small Wins Confidence Tracker

A simple tracker to collect evidence that your confidence is growing — even when progress feels slow. Progress you can see.

✔️ Is Today a Riding Day? Decision Guide

A calm, structured decision-making tool to help you choose whether to ride, adjust your plan, do groundwork, or take a smaller confidence-building step. No more going round in circles.

These tools are included to support the work — not to overwhelm you. Everything is designed to be useful, simple, and easy to return to.

 Because horses, life, weather, hormones, busy yards, fresh horses, and human brains do not move in a neat straight line. Funny that.

 

Let’s Build Confidence Together with the Course plus Membership Package 

Get the full Settled in the Saddle course plus ongoing support so you’re never riding through this work alone. Coaching, community, and accountability to keep you and your horse progressing with confidence

Yes I want the course plus membership

Feel Calmer and More in Control When You Ride

Learn practical tools to settle anxiety, reduce overwhelm, and feel steadier both mentally and physically in the saddle.

Rebuild Confidence Without Pressure 

 Follow a supportive step-by-step pathway designed specifically for nervous riders, returning riders, and riders rebuilding trust after setbacks.

Enjoy Your Horse and Riding Again

Move away from, tension, and self-doubt so you can reconnect with the enjoyment, freedom, and partnership that riding is meant to bring.

 

This course is right for you if:

 

✔  You feel tense before you even get on

 

✔  You compare yourself to the rider you used to be and wonder where she went

 

✔  You know you are capable,  but your body doesn’t always seem to believe that yet

 

✔  You’re tired of being pushed, shamed, rushed, or told that nerves mean you’re not serious enough

 

  You don’t need judgement.

    You need a way forward.

 

Why I created this course — and why it’s different

I am Margie Riley: lifelong horsewoman, experienced coach, and creator of the SETTLED Rider Framework.

Horses have been part of my life for decades. I have produced young horses and thoroughbreds off the track, competed in show jumping to Grand Prix level, and evented to a high standard.

But it is not only the achievements that shaped this course. It is what I have had to come back from.

Like many riders, my journey has had disruptions, in my case it has included falls, difficult horses, back surgeries, cancer treatment, and times when riding felt anything but straightforward. I know what it is to have to find your way back — not as a concept, but as a lived experience.

Through years of riding, coaching, competing, and working with riders who were struggling, something became very clear to me:

Riding confidence is not just a mindset issue.

It’s not just about positive thinking. It’s not just about technique. It’s not about being told to get on and do it. Confidence in the saddle involves your body, your mind, your horse, your environment, your history, and the choices you make in each moment.

That’s why I created the SETTLED Rider Framework — a practical, whole-rider approach for rebuilding confidence gently and sustainably, without pressure, and without pretending that fear is something to be ashamed of.

 

Settled in the Saddle

Take the First Step toward Confident Riding with the Settled in the Saddle Course

Begin Your Settled Rider Journey

Your 7-Day Settled Start Guarantee

I want you to feel completely confident saying yes to Settled in the Saddle.

So here's what I offer: spend your first week inside the course. Watch the welcome lesson, move through the start of Module 1, and try the first reflection exercise for yourself. This isn't a formality,  it's genuinely how you'll know whether this approach feels right for your body and your journey with your horse.

If it's not the right fit

If, after that, you feel it isn't the right fit, simply reach out within 7 days of your purchase and I'll refund you, no hard feelings, and you're welcome to keep the bonuses you've received as a thank you for giving it a try.

One honest note: Settled in the Saddle isn't a quick fix, and I can't promise your fear will vanish overnight — riding anxiety doesn't work that way, and I'd never want to promise you something that isn't true. What I can offer is a clear, supportive pathway to help you understand what's happening in your body, calm your nervous system, and rebuild your confidence step by step.

 

Your next step

You do not need to feel completely confident before you take action.

Confidence is usually built because of the right action, not before it.

If you are ready for a calmer, steadier, more supportive way back into riding, I would love to help you get there.  

 

Available Offers

Course

$297

includes

  • Full Settled in the Saddle 7 Module course
  • First module delivered immediately
  • Modules delivered weeky to avoid overwhelm and allow you time to implement
  • Founding Member Lifetime Access
  • 8 Bonuses for Founding Members
Begin Your Settled Rider Journey

Course +
Settled Support Membership

$297 + $29/mo

First month free!

  • Full Settled in the Saddle 7 module program
  • Founding Member Lifetime Access
  • 8 bonuses for Founding Members
  • monthly membership with first month free. Founding membership price of US$29/month remains while acount is active
I’m Ready to Feel Calmer in the Saddle

Course + Coaching Bundle

$550

$50 Savings!

  • Full Settled in the Saddle 7 Module Course
  • All bonuses with included with Settled in the Saddle Course
  • Lifetime access for Founding Members
  • 3 Personalized 1:1 Coaching Calls (45minutes) to discuss you particular needs 
Start Riding with More Confidence

Premium Bundle: includes Settled in the Saddle Course, 3 X 1:1 Calls, and Settled Support Membership

$550.00

INCLUDES

  • Full Settled in the Saddle course at Foundation Member Price. The 7 Step SETTLED method to help you reduce your anxiety and increase confidence
  • 3 x 1:1 coaching calls tailored to your specific riding situation, so you get personal guidance and support
  • Settled Support membership at the Foundation price, with your first month free and your founding rate locked in while your account stays active
  • Monthly topics and resources to help you keep momentum and see steady progress over time
  • All bonuses including Foundation Member Bonuses
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